“There’s no such thing as true love without first embracing your true self,” words of advice from Genevieve Delacroix, the most sought after modiste of the Ton to Penelope on the eve of her wedding.

Even a Wallflower Can Bloom

This line from the popular Netflix series Bridgerton, encapsulates the show's theme of transformation and self-discovery, emphasising that even those who are initially overlooked or underestimated have the potential to grow and flourish. The series, based on Julia Quinn's novels, highlights the journeys of characters who defy societal expectations and find their own paths to happiness and fulfilment.

One definition of the saying “you can’t fit a square peg into a round hole” says that it describes the unusual individualist who could not fit into a niche of their society.

Now here my friends in my opinion is where the problem lies.

It is the use of the word “unusual” which when we are talking about a person could be better described as “unique” individual. At the end of the day we are all unique and we are all individual.

So here’s my journey through this exact problem.